How to Find Your Rhythm with a Double Sided Dildo

Interested in checking out the fancy long dong toys you saw in porn? Depending on your expectations, adding a double ended dildo to your bedroom fun stash will either leave you with a new zest for life or feeling the same emotions as when you learned Santa wasn’t real.

Just like with all things in life, novelty can be deceptive, but today, we’ll show you how to make the most of your double ended dildo game. To use this flashy toy and to get the rhythm right, you are gonna need to turn on your brain a tad and see what works for both your bodies! Strap in because It’s gonna get kinkier than you expect!

What Is a Double Sided Dildo Anyway?

A double sided dildo looks like a snake with two heads on both ends, but it’s really a fancy piece of silicone made to be inserted in all your holes. These marvels of human thirst are some of the longest toys you can get on the market and were made to fit all genders and orientations. Yes that’s right. You can use them on your boyfriend too. Just make sure everything is cleaned up down there first.

But back on topic. You probably saw them in a lesbian video, or in that one scene of Requiem for a Dream. Either way introducing a double-ender one of the legendary kraken’s of porn and sex should not be taken lightly. More so, it’s even harder to use it well. So read up and be prepared for what’s to come!

Is A Double Sided Dildo Right For Me?

Do you enjoy penetration? The answer is probably yes, as it’s like asking if you enjoy ice cream. Double Sided dildoes can be used like a regular toy for creative sex splicing, or you can use them at home to feel like you are getting double stuffed and filled to the brim.

These things can be linked up from the ass to the vagina or mouth to any other part. Furthermore, If you have a curious sexual spirit or if you are interested in using it for couple sex, then a double sided dildo is a good partner and can be the link that can bond you together.

Which Double Ended Dildo Should I Get?

So, you’re already looking at the stores to find the right size of double ended dildo. While they may seem intimidating, don’t underestimate yourself but don’t go crazy with the thickness or length unless you can handle it.

Start by considering what you like the most during penetration – the girth or the depth? Grab thinner models if you are new to butt play! And if you like fisting, then you can find models with such shapes that stimulate your desires. Furthermore, you also have to consider what material you want your toy to be. Avoid the following toxic materials that can harm your health: PVC, vinyl, and phthalates.

Can I Make My Own Double Ended Dildo?

DO NOT! We repeat, do not make your own double ended dildo. We know that you might have gone broke from your OnlyFans subscriptions, but gluing or making a double sided dildo at home can be a terrible idea. First off, glue and other bonding materials can be very toxic to you and will have an easy absorption route through your flesh. Second, the materials you buy online are not medically safe and cannot be used in printing or assembling. Third, your Frankenstein creation might break during the fun time, and then you have to explain why to the poor medics who have to fish it out from your butt.

Your Best Companion

LUBE! Lube is your best friend in every situation, from just teasing yourself with a finger to going wild with some thick anal beads! Lube will be even more essential here as you have the option to penetrate two holes simultaneously. More on that later. If you’ve messed up in some way, your lubey friend will make sure you don’t hurt like a silly goober. Since you are shopping, grab some and add a double dose to your tool before you start. You can even grab some that taste good if you plan to suck on the double-headed snake in the near future.

Don’t Switch The Ends

Whether you are alone and turning yourself into a porcupine casualty or you are doing something unholy with your partner, if the heads are in two different holes (vagina and anus), then do not switch them up! This is a basic sanitary precaution, and it can also increase the risk of catching something from your partner. Just like how in standard sex, what went in the anal door is banned from the vagina, the same applies to this toy. To avoid later shedding tears of infections and itch while you question and curse your horny brain, take precautions in advance!

How To Find The Rhythm As A Couple

No matter the relationship and biology of your partner, you can both enjoy the double sided dildo. This tool is effective no matter what gender your partner is. It can be shared by gay men, women, or used in pegging by straight guys.

Naturally, it’s good with women. Now, to get at what you came here for: Finding your rhythm.
Start off by turning on some classic sexy music. Any music with a decent BPM will do. Now get into position with your better half. Any position aside from the standing one will work, but the doggy style and squatting are the most effective. Laying belly flat and interlocking your legs will keep it in place. The amazing thing is that porn positions are applicable here, so you can try them out! 

Now as the beat starts to drop, gently throw back your booty together to stimulate thrusting. If you can get in sync with the music, you’ll have an immensely more pleasurable time. Pro tip, if you can make it clap as well, we tip our hats to you.

Now, make sure when using double sided dildos, you have the muscles to hold them in. Your weak pelvic floor will not keep it in place, and you might feel it dragging out. During couple play, if one of you is moving, then one partner will feel it slip out while the other end stays firm. The alternative is to stay still and manually move the item with your hand.

This is why many people think the tool is mid at best. But when you two can clench and contract together, you can ride on the same rhythm together as well. You’re welcome.

You Should Be Ready!

You know what to expect, what to get, and what positions to try out! You are not half as lost as you were before read this article.

Make sure to feel out the dildo and pace yourself as you go, as this sex toy takes some getting used to. If you are ok with the regular services a dildo provides, you can only be charmed with a double ended one! The tool is as useful as your creativity, and if you are receptive to penetration and wish to feel close to your partner (skin to skin) a double sided dildo will be the bridge!