Are you thinking of bringing up pegging to your boyfriend but don’t want to rip his anus? Maybe you’re the one testing the waters, or perhaps he’s the one who’s been eyeing your toys, curious and eager to feel something a little different.
It might surprise you, but there’s a good chance he’s interested in a bit of ass play, either because he’s just plain turned on by it, he wants to explore something new, or he thinks it’ll feel damn good. And he’s right you know. Even straight men like a little breaking and entering the back door too.
It might surprise you, but there’s a good chance he’s interested in a bit of ass play, either because he’s just plain turned on by it, he wants to explore something new, or he thinks it’ll feel damn good. And he’s right you know.
Even straight men like a little breaking and entering the back door too.
Either way, pegging can be a bit complicated.
There are tools you’ve probably never handled and sensations you’re not used to. Before we tell you how to peg successfully you must know every risk has it’s rewards. Now, let’s talk about pegging’s benefits.
The Benefits of Pegging Your Boyfriend
Being in your boyfriends bussy is hot as hell. But did you know Pegging has some bonus benefits too?Think of it as a special add-on for your sex life, giving you the chance to dabble in couple power dynamics you never knew you craved.
Even if your man isn’t exactly “fruity,” pegging still targets that hidden special spot – the prostate that can send him straight to Pleasure Town. The healthy prostate stimulation not only feels amazing for him, but also helps keep things running smoothly down there, so you’re basically doing him a public service
And let’s not forget the sweet, sweet sound of him moaning in your ear. That desperate, needy gasp is like music to a woman’s soul, reminding you that you’re both alive, sexual, and connected. It can boost intimacy, crank up the emotional heat, and make that post-sex glow a hundred times brighter. Think of it as mood therapy with a side of mind-blowing bussy orgasms!
What’s In It For The Pegger?
If you think the one who’s strapped up gets nothing but a workout, think again. Sure, it might seem like you’re not getting the same kind of direct pleasure, but this simply isn’t true. Picture the power at your fingertips. The moment you see your partner squirm and moan as you take your she-shlong out and ram it in his ass. In this moment, you know you’re the one driving that pleasure train.
That is a big turn-on in itself, and It can be a total mind and body rush as you pop it out of his bussy and watch him suck on your “cock” as if you were the real deal. If that even slightly stirs your engine, you know you are in for a show.
And it’s not just about power. You can bring in a little S&M spice to really fire things up. Tie them up a bit, make them beg for it, and enjoy the wild energy bouncing between you two. As the pegger, you become a guide, a leader in this new sexual adventure. Plus, there is something intimate about feeling that strap-on snug against your body. It can make you feel closer, like you are sharing something secret and special. Instead of being “grumpy,” think of it as stepping into a role that lets you explore, experiment, and take charge in a way that can be just as thrilling for you as it is for him.
Preparing your Boyfriend For His Pegging Session
Step 1 – Prepping Him for Pegging
Is your man new to the whole anal thing? If so, he might just appreciate a little test drive with some of your fingers first.
To ease him in, first pull up a google image search to look at the different sizes and shapes together until he finds the one that makes him say, “Oh, hell yes!
It can actually feel pretty romantic to search for a pegging dildo as a team, bonding over your fresh stash of backdoor goodies. And if you’re curious about how to ease him in, give “butt training” a quick search.
Once he’s more comfortable, you two lovebirds can head out and pick up the perfect strap on! Let him choose the one he likes best, but keep a few must-have details in mind. It’s all about making sure you both have a damn good time.
Step 2 – Picking the Perfect Strap On
When you’re ready to pick out that perfect toy, go shopping in person. Sure, online shopping might be great for the pros, but right now, you need to see the goods up close and personal. The biggest must-have, apart from choosing a non-porous material, is a solid harness or belt to keep that new schlong firmly secured. Don’t get stingy here because your gear should fit like a glove if you want it to feel right and look hot. And to avoid chafing while you’re giving him heinous backshots.
And before you start thinking with your freshly equipped “lower head,” hold off on the big, bumpy monsters. Trust me, you only need about 2-3 inches to hit the right spot, so don’t scare him. You can always size up once you two get the hang of things. Start small, stay comfortable, and let the journey evolve as you go!
Step 3 – Keeping Clean Together
Because pegging falls under the Anal Play umbrella, a little freshening up goes a long way. Consider a gentle wash, maybe an enema, and for the love of all that’s holy, if you want to keep it clean, tell him to spruce up that back alley too. Unless, of course, you’re into the whole natural messiness. Then by all means, break out a tarp and embrace your inner explorer!
And remember the drill, clean those naughty toys before and after every use. If something went in the back door, it definitely doesn’t belong in your mouth or vagina. Keep your cleaning gear handy as you explore your man’s anus.
Step 4 – Get the Rhythm Right
Pace yourself, girlboss. We mean it. At first, go slower than a snail taking a Sunday slime stroll. Start by just slipping the tip in and then gently pulling back, like you’re testing the waters. Not sure if you’ve got enough lube going on? Keep some syringes full of the slick stuff ready to squirt into that backdoor button whenever things start feeling dry. Gradually shape your way inside and find that sweet spot where everything fits just right. Then stay there for a moment, catch your breath, and remember: slow is sexy. Seriously, even slower than that so you don’t destroy his beautiful bussy.
Step 5 – Turn Up The Heat on His Bussy
Yes, the first time can be nerve-racking, and going at a turtle’s pace might risk cooling things down a bit. But that’s where a little extra heat comes in! Make sure to initiate dirty talk and stroke him off while your inside him. Even a touch of rimming or fingering, if you two are into that sort of thing, can keep the sexy vibes high. The point is to keep it fun, not some chore you’re just trying to check off the list. Keep that sexual simmer going, and you’ll both stay in the mood.
Step 6 – Communication is Key to Ensure an Intact Anus and a Good Time
Besides his brown star, communication is your guiding star, so don’t zip your lips now. Check in with your man constantly. How’s that feeling? Too deep? Just right? By talking it out, you’ll figure out where he’s most comfy and maybe even hit the spots that send him straight to heaven.
Once you find that sweet territory, remember your training—no sudden sprints! Keep it at a slow, steady tempo, just like you’d expect when he’s down between your legs. After all, you’re the one wearing the “dick” this time, so you’re the one leading the pleasure parade!
Congratulations! You’ve Pegged Your Boyfriend Successfully!
What’s Next? Living Post-Peg
Once your gentleman has cummed his last drop in a glorious shower, you two should cuddle and enjoy each other’s company. Dedicate some time to discussing the experience and talking about what worked, what could be done better, and how both of you feel about it. This downtime is also when you should get those sanitary wipes to clean your partner up and take a shower. Don’t forget to sanitize your gear and stash it where the sun doesn’t shine and no mold starts growing!
Breath Easy, His Anus Should Be Safe and Rip Free!
If you’ve taken into consideration all we’ve suggested and said, not only will his ass be safe (if you go slow), but the whole experience will be a bonding moment between you. Being pegged is an inherently submissive position. Many men aren’t allowed to be sensitive or rarely get the chance to. Respect his wishes, and don’t be mean to him (unless he’s into that). Hold each other’s hands while you go on this slow journey and explore your likes and dislikes as well as new sexual horizons you’ve never encountered before! But go slowly, seriously.
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